“Many of us the World over have been hurt by people, people whose only agenda appears to be themselves.
“They seem to have lost all sensitivity to ever feel what another might be experiencing by their actions or lack of actions, especially at this time of year.
“Especially around the Christmas period, where all is supposed to be the giving of others, there are those amongst us who feel they need the love and support of their families.
“These family members, those people we have known all our lives often appear the worst. They tend to be oblivious to the hurt they inflict on their own family members.
“Kindness for them seems almost forgotten. They only think of themselves. Giving from them is often nonexistent.
“That friendly ’phone call, a kind word in your direction or even enquiring as to how you are often escapes them. Their ignorance sometimes over many years can cut deep and it leaves people very hurt and often helpless.
“It is their insensitivity that we don’t exist. We are not a part of their lives, often being completely ignored is something many of us have had to bear.
“The scars of their actions run deep and a void, a vacuum, within our souls starts to emerge and grow.
“What is one to do under these circumstances? Is there any point in telling them of how we feel?
“The answer is not really, for if they actually thought anything of us in the first place these problems would never occur.
“By some special miracle, other people enter into our lives who do really care and appreciate us. It is they who truly matter in our lives.
“They are in a sense our substitute family, which ‘God’ has sent to fill that void/vacuum and to allow us to heal through their unconditional love.
“So never feel that you are not loved. There is always a person or persons who are brought in at the exact time, who always make a difference.
“It is they who warm our hearts and make a life worth living again. These people are sensitive to the needs of others and are always quick to point out that they are there in times of need and hardship or when you just need a friendly chat and support.
“Our family members are on their own path to enlightenment and when it is their time they will be shown where they were strongly lacking in their role to support their own family.
“Ignorance of others is painful and through their own enlightenment some day they will finally realise the harm they have done.
“Instruction to them must come from a Higher Power. It has to in order for it to truly resonate with their conscience.
“Coming from us is not enough, so let the Almighty sort it all out for us.
“We just need to heal and to become more at peace within our own minds, remembering that ‘God’ gives us precisely what we need and in the very best way that we need it always.”
Jenny Ayers
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