The message to all of us must be, “Do not comment on another person’s life
until you have walked in their shoes for at least a year.”
I often hear these days that one should do
this or they should do that and then things/situations will turn for them.
When a person’s life goes so horribly
wrong, often it is not that individual’s fault, but a series of lifelong
circumstances against that individual bringing them close to even, at times,
taking their own life.
It is only by being born into a life of
problematic events that causes a soul from an early age to do what it needs to
in order just to survive. Never mind
enjoying themselves, where for them that seems like an impossibility.
Many souls are struck down by debilitating
illnesses or viruses where sheer utter exhaustion, both mentally and physically
overcomes them. They remain bedridden
for years trying, each and every day, to just get out of bed and to wash and
dress themselves, which takes all their strength and mental agility and there
is nothing more left. They become a
spent force.
What actually is known is that we are
always changing and situation/events never stay the same unless you are
medically completely impaired. It is in
those changing times that miracles do happen and what is considered the status
quo for the rest of their lives, new light is shone.
Health and medical emotional changes do
happen and where souls finally see a light at the end of their tunnel. Through the power of the Spirit and only at
that right time, breakthroughs, which were not there before, become apparent.
The individual can
see their lives emerging out of a deadlock situation and they find themselves
slowly being healed and life for them begins to change.
It is that time
alone that the individual is able to rise out of the ashes of despair and
emerge into a more stable place of being.
This comes automatically to that individual soul and not because someone
has thrown away a careless line that that soul should take themselves off for a
twenty minute walk.
When an individual
is so broken by circumstances beyond their control and does not have the energy
to even get out of bed, never mind do anything else. Not because of laziness, but because of the
debilitating circumstances, they don’t need to hear a twenty minute walk will
do them the world of good.
Clearly that
individual has no concept of the suffering that sick person has gone
through. We are all guilty of making
careless futile comments, but it is these comments that can have a profound
bearing on individual suffering souls and put them in a greater/deeper
situation of suffering and anxiety.
It is five years
since a careless Australian hoax call was made to a London hospital, where the
Duchess of Cambridge was admitted. The
call pretended to be the Queen wanting to speak to her daughter-in-law.
The nurse realised
too late that she had made a mistake in putting the call through. Such was her guilt and anxiety that she felt
she had done wrong that she couldn’t live with herself and later she took her
own life.
The message is, “Think before you speak”, because
circumstances can get out of control very quickly and distressed souls,
physically, mentally, emotionally do suffer far more than the individual commentator
realises.
Jenny Ayers
Friday, 28th April 2017
