Think Before You Speak

The message to all of us must be, “Do not comment on another person’s life until you have walked in their shoes for at least a year.”

I often hear these days that one should do this or they should do that and then things/situations will turn for them.

When a person’s life goes so horribly wrong, often it is not that individual’s fault, but a series of lifelong circumstances against that individual bringing them close to even, at times, taking their own life.

It is only by being born into a life of problematic events that causes a soul from an early age to do what it needs to in order just to survive.  Never mind enjoying themselves, where for them that seems like an impossibility.

Many souls are struck down by debilitating illnesses or viruses where sheer utter exhaustion, both mentally and physically overcomes them.  They remain bedridden for years trying, each and every day, to just get out of bed and to wash and dress themselves, which takes all their strength and mental agility and there is nothing more left.  They become a spent force.

What actually is known is that we are always changing and situation/events never stay the same unless you are medically completely impaired.  It is in those changing times that miracles do happen and what is considered the status quo for the rest of their lives, new light is shone.

Health and medical emotional changes do happen and where souls finally see a light at the end of their tunnel.  Through the power of the Spirit and only at that right time, breakthroughs, which were not there before, become apparent.

          The individual can see their lives emerging out of a deadlock situation and they find themselves slowly being healed and life for them begins to change.

          It is that time alone that the individual is able to rise out of the ashes of despair and emerge into a more stable place of being.  This comes automatically to that individual soul and not because someone has thrown away a careless line that that soul should take themselves off for a twenty minute walk.

          When an individual is so broken by circumstances beyond their control and does not have the energy to even get out of bed, never mind do anything else.  Not because of laziness, but because of the debilitating circumstances, they don’t need to hear a twenty minute walk will do them the world of good.

          Clearly that individual has no concept of the suffering that sick person has gone through.  We are all guilty of making careless futile comments, but it is these comments that can have a profound bearing on individual suffering souls and put them in a greater/deeper situation of suffering and anxiety.

          It is five years since a careless Australian hoax call was made to a London hospital, where the Duchess of Cambridge was admitted.  The call pretended to be the Queen wanting to speak to her daughter-in-law.

          The nurse realised too late that she had made a mistake in putting the call through.  Such was her guilt and anxiety that she felt she had done wrong that she couldn’t live with herself and later she took her own life.

          The message is, “Think before you speak”, because circumstances can get out of control very quickly and distressed souls, physically, mentally, emotionally do suffer far more than the individual commentator realises.

Jenny Ayers

Friday, 28^th April 2017